Weight gain was a huge issue in my relationship . I had no way of knowing my weight flux was
Influenced by mood , and I transversed a lot of grey and darkness, trying to please a man , who
Is self judging and projecting critical , often toxic information.
I dressed well, groomed myself and tried to be aviable for my marriage partner , to the
Detriment of our children .
Hearing his good night words , after ” lovemaking” , to hear ” now I”ll sleep better , was
Heartbreaking for a woman and he never got better at it .
It took years to grasp I wasn’t supposed to fill him, or determine his enoughess or even love
Him when he choices to remain as is , disrespected the family we created .
This man speaks poetically of his wife, weight withstanding , and that’s powerful to me .