Jo Sutch on Narcopaths who destroy health of others & feel justified 

One of the things that people never believe, unless they have experienced it first hand, is how dark malignant narcissists actually are. The lengths they will go to destroy you is terrifying.
They will slowly convince you through gaslighting that there is something wrong with your mind…to the point where you actually question your own reality. This is very difficult to snap out of after you are no longer in tbe relationship, and impossible to fully detach from during tbe relationship.
Wondering about whether or not you are perceiving situations correctly is so terrifying that it can slowly cause physiological changes in the brain that are the same as various mental illnesses.
I believe that many people with mental illness were abused by a narcissist or a psychopath during their lives and have no idea about it. Children growing up with a malignant, toxic person do not have any frame of reference of what normal is.
Some adults realize that they were exposed to instances of abuse as children or teenagers, because the incidents they are able to identify are either of a physical nature that caused injury, or of a sexual nature.
They are not aware of the constant mind manipulation and intentional gaslighting which occurred years before the abuse they can identify as abuse. The incidents of physical abuse are terrible,
 but there was continuous mental manipulation which caused the brain to begin to show signs of mental illness like anxiety disorders, severe depression, OCD, and suicidal thoughts.
Many victims of abuse as adults, are reopening emotional, and psychological wounds that were already caused during childhood.
Adults that cannot recall any physical abuse often do not see their abusers as abusers. There are narcissists that get away with manipulating their children’s reality, their self esteem, and their 
perception of the narcissistic parent. Narcissists want their victims to feel at fault for the abuse, making the victim unable to identify the abuse as abuse.
Those of us that came across the terms malignant narcissist, gaslighting, and mental abuse are in the minority. Imagine how many people are walking around, thinking there is something 
innately wrong with them, and they do not realize that their psychological state was inflicted upon them by another person, just so that person could use them to feed off of.
Malignant narcissists are not just arrogant, delusional people. They are malicious, exploitative monsters that cause their victims 
to become confused about their own perception of reality….to the point that they doubt their own perceptions and cannot even identify abuse as abuse.
Is it any wonder that children brought up this way end up ensnared by another abuser? When the abuse begins, the victim doubts their own ability to perceive what they feel, see and hear. They 
discount abusive behavior, and are easily gaslighted into believing it is not abuse.
Psychopaths target people that have already been broken by a narcissist. They know what signs to look for. They know how to 
test you, in order to see if you will respond to their brainwashing.
You have to reprogram your braim to get rid of the viruses that were installed into you. Otherwise it is difficult to recognize abuse when it starts.
Predators look for the best targets for them to destroy. These people have an extreme darkness within themJo 

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