Cho mo lung ma I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting akin to Domestic abuse, and too often socially and professionally acceptable. I will share my life and my recovery , from abuse , that goes on 13 heartless years , after ... and it has been shaming, isolating and yet when I heard of Pathogenic Parenting only 18 months ago, I knew I was going to dedicate my years to this, and the information became a deluge . I hope to be able to share major ways I have coped, lessons learned, books on the subject , poetry and ask that we just be mindful, factual , and earnest in prays , hope and dreams for a more peaceful word for children who don't have to heal trauma occurring in their formative years . I did , and unacknowledged , remains "triggered" often, this trauma of childhood innocence lost, but having not taken my soul, not spirit , or devalued me as a person, nor does it anyone. But that is the journey too many take to make the Return To Love, whole in the eyes of divine consciousness , nothing that love cannot heal. It begins with me, within me, I only used to lack the maps and compasses ... Many angles and spirit guides , and those who have walked my path in varring degrees , helped inform thus lift me, and so I play it forward , in this simple endovor of revelations of my life and the joys and defeats of being not being heard .